The Future of You

The Future of You – Co-founders of “The Future of You” Nan Ives and Lisa Stornaielo join Jeff Perry and Russ Ball for a non-financial planning discussion focusing on how someone in retirement should Rebalance Your Life, Connect to Your Purpose,...
The Future of You – Co-founders of “The Future of You” Nan Ives and Lisa Stornaielo
join Jeff Perry and Russ Ball for a non-financial planning discussion focusing on how
someone in retirement should Rebalance Your Life, Connect to Your Purpose, Activate
“ReTRYmen” and Launch Your Life Plan. Nan and Lisa share their experiences with
how their clients work through the opportunities and challenges they face when they step
away from their full-time careers.
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Welcome to Something More with Chris Boyd.
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Hello,
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and welcome to another edition of
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Something More with Chris Boyd.
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I am Jeff Perry,
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and I have the privilege of
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sitting in for Chris this week,
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who is off at a financial
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planning conference in Florida.
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And for this
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episode we're happy to have
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back some returning guests
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with the co-founders of the
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future of you lisa and nan
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welcome back to another
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episode thanks for being here
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Nan,
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I'd love you to start out by telling
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our listeners today what's
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the inspiration of your
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company and a little bit
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about how it works.
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Sure.
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I worked in financial
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services all my life.
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I spent twenty seven years
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at America's retirement company,
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Fidelity Investments.
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And I like to say that every
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day I went to work,
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I talked about retirement.
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So my perspective of
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retirement was that about
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having a sound financial
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plan so that you could
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never work again and live
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the rest of your life.
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in comfort so that made
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sense to me until I
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actually retired I took an
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early retirement package
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from fidelity and went off
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I was ready for a change
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and I went off and played a
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lot of golf and I traveled
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and I and I had an epiphany
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one day after probably
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hitting a round ball around
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a golf course that this is
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how I'm going to spend the
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rest of my life and I had
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people in my life that were
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living into the nineties and I was in my
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early sixties.
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what's my purpose?
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I started to feel lost.
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I started to feel like there
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was something in my life that just wasn't,
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wasn't fulfilling.
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I didn't have meaning.
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I wanted to have fun.
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I loved having lifestyle balance,
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but I really questioned like,
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what was my purpose?
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What was my future identity?
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this next phase of my life?
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thoughts led to conversations with Lisa,
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who has been a colleague of
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mine for a long time.
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She's also a career coach.
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how do people transition
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into retirement outside of
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traditional views of
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leisure time and recreation?
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inspiration to me and she
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actually had her own story.
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So I'll let her tell that.
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Lisa, please share.
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Around the same time or
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actually a little bit before then,
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I started thinking about
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this in addition.
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So our oldest was getting ready,
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our youngest, pardon me,
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was getting ready to go off to college.
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over twenty one years,
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did executive coaching and
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leadership development,
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but really focused on career transition.
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you know,
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designed programs to onboard them
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to that new role.
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my daughter was starting to
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go to college and think
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about her career that I
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gave her some career coaching.
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At the same time,
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many of my friends like me
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and were taking this early
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retirement package from Fidelity.
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I'm gonna be on that for the next round.
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what am I going to do when
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the when the question comes
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when the gift comes am I
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going to take it how am I
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going to spend my life and
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I got really excited seeing
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how my daughter had all
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these tools at her disposal
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to help her figure out her
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career and so I went out
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and said geez there's got
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to be more out there than
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just the financial planning
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piece what about the life
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planning piece I'm the tail
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end of the baby boomers I
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had read an article that by
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twenty thirty all baby
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boomers are hitting sixty five
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came this way before me.
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There must be tons of stuff out there.
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And I was sadly disappointed
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to find that really there
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was only primarily
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financial planning and some life coaching,
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but nothing specifically targeted,
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no tools, no framework,
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no resources to helping
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people manage this major life transition.
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so I started talking with my
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friend nan and the two of
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us started to say you know
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what we should fall in love
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with this problem a little
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bit and find out what
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others are doing in it and
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that's kind of how
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everything started we
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started by trying to figure
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out the problem for
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ourselves and how to solve
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it and then we learned from
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a lot of people that this
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wasn't just an anomaly that
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many people are facing this
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it's not an anomaly at all it's um
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I think most people,
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when they're about ready to retire,
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don't even know that they have a problem.
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Nan, you worked with clients for decades,
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and so you have this
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experience that I have.
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They're interested in the number.
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What's my number?
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Can I retire?
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How am I going to have my cash flow?
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Am I going to be able to buy
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a second home?
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What's my plan for how much
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I can spend on travel?
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know gifting it's all
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financial it's almost it's
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almost just entirely
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financial for a lot of people
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And, and, you know,
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we never spoke about life.
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What are you going to do?
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It was like,
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where are you going to live
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and how much money do you need?
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And where's your budget?
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And where are your kids in this,
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in this stage of life?
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But no one said like,
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when you wake up Monday
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morning at eight AM without a job,
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how are you going to spend your time?
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And I would argue that that's easy.
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I'm going to go play golf
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and do all these fun things,
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but there's a honeymoon period.
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And then you start to say, is this it?
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Is this all I'm going to do?
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catalyst for us to go study
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the problem and find out like,
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were other people stuck or
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did people transform?
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we did a lot of research in twenty,
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twenty and twenty one to figure out like.
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did people transform and
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what was the formula and or
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are other people stuck and
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did they get sort of taken
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off guard like I did um you
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know and and felt like I
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need to do more but I don't
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know how you must have
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found that a lot of people
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were stuck or unhappy
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We did.
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We had a few people who said,
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you should talk to my mother.
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heartbreaking stories.
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We also had people who were still working,
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but kept telling us,
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I got the financial means to retire,
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but I'm not ready.
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we called them the kicking
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it down the can sort of folks.
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Like every year they were like, okay,
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I'm going to retire next year.
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You guys probably hear this with clients.
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It's the year after.
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It's the year after.
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you know,
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they don't pull the plug because
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they don't know what
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they're going to do next.
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Lisa,
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when you were helping your colleagues
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advance through their career,
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these are the changes as well, right?
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And they're,
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so I see the relevant experience,
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but don't you think people,
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even the people who maybe
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dig deep into what am I going to do next?
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They come up with things like,
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I'm going to travel.
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I'm going to take care of my
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grandchildren.
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I'm going to
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you know fill in the blank
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and that might take you
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know four weeks a year
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right they have a broad
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outline even the ones who
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think about it they have
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like I'm gonna do these
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things but you know they
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don't really get into the
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nuts and bolts of the
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everyday life is that is
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that what you find
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Definitely, Jeff.
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What we find, too,
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is even those questions
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about where am I going to
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live and how much am I
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going to travel and what am I going to do,
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it's in a part of a bigger context.
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You have a bigger life than that, right?
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Those are just activities.
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So what we've really found
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as we delved in and researched this,
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especially in the group of
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people that were living
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their best lives in retirement,
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we met some really cool
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people there and we started to say,
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what do they do that's different?
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And they look at their life
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more holistically.
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And they think of it in
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terms of different parts of their lives.
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But more importantly,
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the traditional view of
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retirement is very passive.
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Like you've arrived, right?
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And we call it the three Gs, gardening,
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grandkids, and golf, right?
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Or the blue plate special, right?
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If you think about that traditional view,
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it just doesn't fit.
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for today's society.
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People are living longer,
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more productive lives.
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Many of these baby boomers
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like myself and Nan have
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really leveraged
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compounding interest in our
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investments throughout the years.
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So we have kind of some freedom.
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But yet,
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there's a lot of people that
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can get very overwhelmed
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and stuck and depressed by
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having that much freedom
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because even though they
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had a very clear career
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path and many of them were
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corporate executives who
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manage their careers eloquently,
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there is no kind of roadmap, if you will,
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when you take that off ramp
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to retirement.
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And so what we started to do
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is really to define and
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help people by saying,
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creating a roadmap and a
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toolkit from the lives and
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the experiences of real
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people who are living their
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best lives in retirement.
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And what we did with that is
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we're helping people create
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their own personalized
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vision for retirement.
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So this is a financial, I mean,
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a retirement plan,
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but not a financial plan.
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Exactly.
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Exactly.
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Lisa,
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can you talk about something that I'm
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sure you saw during your career,
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but also in retirement?
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Identity.
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I find this to be more of a
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challenge with men than women,
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but you can certainly tell me I'm wrong.
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Because, you know,
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you meet somebody at a
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cocktail party or at the
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pickleball court or the golf course.
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And, you know,
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after it's where do you live and all that,
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what do you do?
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Yeah.
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And we start with historically, you know,
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we start with I am a financial planner.
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I am a lawyer.
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I am a teacher.
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And for people who retire,
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it almost looks like they
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don't know what to say.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So true, Chris.
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I think the, pardon me, Jeff,
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I think the number one
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thing that we found is this
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loss of identity.
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And so what we try to help people do,
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the people that have scaled it,
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reconnect to their purpose.
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And we help people think about
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What's their overall purpose?
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What gets them out of bed in the morning?
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And you can see how that
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fits into the context of a
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person's role in an organization.
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And now they have to kind of
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leverage those skills and
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leverage who they were
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there to realize it takes
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place in a bigger context
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of their overall life.
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And so we help them kind of
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rediscover that identity.
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through the vantage point of,
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so what's your purpose?
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What has your purpose always been?
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And to get really crystal clear on that.
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I would add that we like to
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have people sort of shed their old skin.
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Like, I know you were a financial planner,
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but what are your gifts and your passion?
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What do you want to do now?
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I'm making cheese.
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I'm composting.
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I'm mentoring young kids.
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I'm volunteering.
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Like,
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there's a whole world of things that
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you can do that light you up.
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But it gets out of that title.
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So, you know,
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it takes time to shed your own skin,
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but that that should go away.
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And you've got a whole new
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chapter in your life.
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And how do you make it fun
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and exciting and something, as Lisa said,
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gets you out of bed in the morning?
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Am I correct with my
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assumption that this is harder for men?
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So the reason why we both
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pause is I'll speak for
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myself in our workshop.
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It surprises me how open men are to it.
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Okay.
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You know,
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and there's a vulnerability when
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people start to share things.
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And so I found that the men
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have been even more open
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about talking about it and
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their struggles with it.
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That's good.
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I find also the men are
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holding on to their past more.
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That's, I guess, what I'm saying.
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Yeah, totally.
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We had a gentleman who was a
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pharmaceutical salesperson,
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and that's all he knew.
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And he kept talking about getting a job,
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and he was in his late sixties.
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And people in the workshop started to say,
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well, what are you excited about?
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He goes, oh, I love antique cars.
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I love cars.
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Yeah.
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And all of a sudden he's
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like going to car shows and he's like,
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well,
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maybe he'll sell cars and maybe
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he'll do this.
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And so all of a sudden,
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just something that he did
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that he felt like was on
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the side of his desk became
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such a passion.
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And you could see how he was
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like kind of dreading,
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like I'm out looking for a job.
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And people were like, why?
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And then all of a sudden he was like, oh,
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my God.
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this could be a whole new life for me.
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And sort of the light bulb went off,
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but the sort of handcuffs
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of who he was also got let go.
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So tell us about how these
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individuals that you work
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with come to you.
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How do they find you?
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And what's the process look like?
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Is there some type of
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assessment that you do?
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If someone reaches out to you and says,
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I think my husband's stuck.
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I think my neighbor could use some help.
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unhappy he's retired what
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does it look like as they
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are introduced to you so we
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have two sides of our
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business individuals and
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corporate I'll talk about
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the individual side um we
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typically have people who
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are in that sort of
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pre-retirement age who are
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sort of contemplating
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what's next and they have
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had that realization that
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like oh this is going to be hard
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Or they've just they retired
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two years ago and nothing has happened.
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So we find them through referrals.
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We find them through social media.
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And then we we have a simple
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digital course that we
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usually start with.
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It's a couple hundred bucks
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and people can go through
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it on their own.
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It's sick.
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It's all the same modules
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that we would have in a
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workshop for corporations.
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But they go through that and
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then they graduate.
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they work through it.
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And then we also augment it with coaching.
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And so if you have a coach
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to sort of help you with,
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how do you connect?
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What is my purpose?
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We'll help you through that.
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Or like, how do I activate retirement,
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which is the third step in our process,
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which is about generating
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lots of ideas and then
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turning them into experiments.
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So a coach will help you at
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very specific times.
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So it's a kind of a
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wonderful blend of like online learning,
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doing it on your own.
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And then if you need it,
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augmenting it with a coach
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to help you maybe get up
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unstuck or to generate more
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ideas or just to help
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finalize that plan or to
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even get you comfortable with, okay,
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I can do this because people do get,
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you know,
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you have grandiose ideas when
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you're going to be,
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I'm going to do all these
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things and half the time
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people don't do them.
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Do sometimes these
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individuals who could use
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some help feel like maybe
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they're too old to change or, you know,
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maybe they're just,
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They may have a physical
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challenge or they just may
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not have the energy they had.
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Are they resistant to it?
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Yeah, I think so.
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Some people are.
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But we do some work around
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growth versus fixed mindset.
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And, you know,
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they teach this in kindergarten.
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I'm not good at this yet, right?
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I'm not too old.
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I'm not too old to try anything.
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I can try anything new, right?
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So we try to get people out
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of that fixed mindset of age, right?
569
00:16:19,621 --> 00:16:21,523
or physical disability or
570
00:16:21,562 --> 00:16:22,842
whatever it might be,
571
00:16:23,864 --> 00:16:25,283
that you can do anything at
572
00:16:25,303 --> 00:16:26,403
this stage of point.
573
00:16:26,464 --> 00:16:27,044
What is it?
574
00:16:27,105 --> 00:16:28,365
What's going to get you excited?
575
00:16:28,404 --> 00:16:29,404
And we also try to get
576
00:16:29,445 --> 00:16:30,605
people to really have the
577
00:16:30,645 --> 00:16:32,586
mindset that it's a time to
578
00:16:32,667 --> 00:16:34,006
learn and be curious.
579
00:16:34,346 --> 00:16:35,486
We think we know everything
580
00:16:35,508 --> 00:16:36,668
at this stage in your life.
581
00:16:36,908 --> 00:16:38,288
There's so much to learn.
582
00:16:38,828 --> 00:16:39,629
And with the internet,
583
00:16:39,649 --> 00:16:40,528
you can learn anything,
584
00:16:40,548 --> 00:16:41,970
and there's lots of online courses.
585
00:16:42,889 --> 00:16:43,571
you know you don't have to
586
00:16:43,791 --> 00:16:45,392
physically be out gardening
587
00:16:45,412 --> 00:16:46,952
or doing you know something
588
00:16:46,993 --> 00:16:48,073
that requires a lot of
589
00:16:48,173 --> 00:16:49,835
physical ability but what
590
00:16:49,894 --> 00:16:50,596
is it that you want to
591
00:16:50,655 --> 00:16:52,256
learn and get curious about
592
00:16:52,297 --> 00:16:53,658
so I think that's the piece
593
00:16:53,717 --> 00:16:55,480
that you know we try to get
594
00:16:55,539 --> 00:16:57,181
people to think very
595
00:16:57,201 --> 00:16:58,461
differently about this
596
00:16:58,701 --> 00:16:59,842
stage in their lives
597
00:17:00,202 --> 00:17:01,024
because it's going to be
598
00:17:01,144 --> 00:17:02,884
thirty years and you might
599
00:17:02,904 --> 00:17:04,066
as well live thirty years
600
00:17:04,105 --> 00:17:05,547
with purpose versus thirty
601
00:17:05,567 --> 00:17:07,327
years with I'm too old I'm
602
00:17:07,848 --> 00:17:09,470
I'm slowing down you know I
603
00:17:09,490 --> 00:17:10,490
can't move as fast
604
00:17:10,931 --> 00:17:12,932
Those might be all realities we face.
605
00:17:13,352 --> 00:17:14,472
But how do you how do you
606
00:17:14,512 --> 00:17:17,314
turn around and feel like, wow,
607
00:17:18,253 --> 00:17:19,375
I'm doing this and it gets
608
00:17:19,414 --> 00:17:20,335
me excited because then
609
00:17:20,375 --> 00:17:21,515
you're you're not thinking
610
00:17:21,535 --> 00:17:23,996
about any of those sort of mindset.
611
00:17:24,156 --> 00:17:25,797
I'll call them disabilities.
612
00:17:25,817 --> 00:17:26,917
They're not really disabilities.
613
00:17:26,958 --> 00:17:27,298
But, you know,
614
00:17:27,317 --> 00:17:29,558
that mindset of I can't do this because.
615
00:17:29,578 --> 00:17:29,659
Yeah.
616
00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:32,741
I would add one other thing.
617
00:17:32,801 --> 00:17:34,202
I think all of what Nan said
618
00:17:34,243 --> 00:17:36,105
is so true of what we're seeing.
619
00:17:36,665 --> 00:17:40,369
But we also have a tool that
620
00:17:40,410 --> 00:17:42,472
we use called a life portfolio.
621
00:17:42,952 --> 00:17:44,575
And I find that that's very
622
00:17:44,674 --> 00:17:47,117
motivating and inspiring for folks.
623
00:17:47,417 --> 00:17:48,657
So we start off.
624
00:17:48,817 --> 00:17:50,199
You talked about an assessment,
625
00:17:50,259 --> 00:17:50,739
if you will,
626
00:17:51,019 --> 00:17:52,459
where we have people go in
627
00:17:52,499 --> 00:17:53,719
and we've created this
628
00:17:53,979 --> 00:17:55,279
proprietary tool where
629
00:17:55,579 --> 00:17:57,480
there's five segments of your life.
630
00:17:57,500 --> 00:17:58,799
So divide your life up into
631
00:17:58,839 --> 00:17:59,861
these five segments and
632
00:17:59,901 --> 00:18:01,260
talk about current state.
633
00:18:01,300 --> 00:18:02,260
What does it look like?
634
00:18:02,300 --> 00:18:04,422
Is it too much, too little?
635
00:18:04,501 --> 00:18:05,102
Just right.
636
00:18:05,582 --> 00:18:08,462
And then say, OK, start to dream,
637
00:18:08,502 --> 00:18:10,502
start to imagine, start to think.
638
00:18:10,542 --> 00:18:12,045
think about like the key
639
00:18:12,105 --> 00:18:13,586
right to really be open to
640
00:18:13,625 --> 00:18:15,288
this right and and then we
641
00:18:15,327 --> 00:18:16,710
say what do you want it to
642
00:18:16,750 --> 00:18:18,171
look like in this next
643
00:18:18,230 --> 00:18:21,755
chapter and so I find then
644
00:18:21,835 --> 00:18:23,817
there's a gap and what we
645
00:18:23,856 --> 00:18:24,938
do is help them build a
646
00:18:24,978 --> 00:18:28,201
plan to get from today to their future
647
00:18:28,988 --> 00:18:31,809
And I find that that sparks
648
00:18:31,849 --> 00:18:34,412
curiosity in people, motivation.
649
00:18:35,432 --> 00:18:37,855
And you start to see that
650
00:18:37,954 --> 00:18:39,175
shifting a little bit.
651
00:18:39,215 --> 00:18:40,936
And then we call out the whole,
652
00:18:41,017 --> 00:18:42,337
is it a fixed mindset or is
653
00:18:42,377 --> 00:18:43,558
it a growth mindset?
654
00:18:44,259 --> 00:18:46,480
And we share lots of stories
655
00:18:46,621 --> 00:18:47,781
of people who've
656
00:18:47,821 --> 00:18:49,182
successfully made this
657
00:18:49,202 --> 00:18:50,564
transition and even people
658
00:18:50,604 --> 00:18:52,145
who've got hung up and not
659
00:18:52,165 --> 00:18:54,067
made the transition.
660
00:18:54,126 --> 00:18:55,728
And so people are able to say, oh,
661
00:18:55,748 --> 00:18:56,449
that's like me.
662
00:18:57,358 --> 00:18:58,859
And so that's what I found
663
00:18:58,900 --> 00:19:01,201
to be helpful to get people
664
00:19:01,221 --> 00:19:03,942
to be more open-minded around this.
665
00:19:04,042 --> 00:19:05,644
I saw in your notes when I
666
00:19:05,663 --> 00:19:07,845
was preparing for our talk today,
667
00:19:08,424 --> 00:19:08,965
something called the
668
00:19:09,006 --> 00:19:10,306
concept of planning for the
669
00:19:10,326 --> 00:19:11,626
hundred year life.
670
00:19:11,886 --> 00:19:12,988
Can you tell me what that's about?
671
00:19:14,627 --> 00:19:14,887
Yes.
672
00:19:14,988 --> 00:19:17,890
So we share a video by the
673
00:19:17,930 --> 00:19:19,410
London School of Economics.
674
00:19:19,851 --> 00:19:21,530
The two professors from that
675
00:19:21,570 --> 00:19:22,872
school wrote a very famous
676
00:19:22,951 --> 00:19:24,432
book called The Hundred Year Life.
677
00:19:24,873 --> 00:19:27,034
They were economic
678
00:19:27,074 --> 00:19:28,434
professors and they talk
679
00:19:28,474 --> 00:19:30,075
about the shift in the
680
00:19:30,336 --> 00:19:33,317
economy and that people now
681
00:19:33,436 --> 00:19:35,218
are living to be a hundred.
682
00:19:35,678 --> 00:19:39,240
And so the traditional view of, you know,
683
00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:40,662
you go to school,
684
00:19:40,741 --> 00:19:42,584
you work for a long time,
685
00:19:42,743 --> 00:19:44,125
you get married and have kids,
686
00:19:44,204 --> 00:19:45,346
and then you retire,
687
00:19:45,405 --> 00:19:47,587
that kind of very staged view,
688
00:19:48,528 --> 00:19:49,509
it really needs to be
689
00:19:49,568 --> 00:19:51,270
rethought of because if
690
00:19:51,290 --> 00:19:52,491
you're going to live to a hundred,
691
00:19:52,531 --> 00:19:53,992
you might need to have more money.
692
00:19:55,130 --> 00:19:56,070
When you're younger,
693
00:19:56,111 --> 00:19:56,951
you might want to take a
694
00:19:56,971 --> 00:19:59,232
sabbatical and travel, etc.
695
00:19:59,653 --> 00:20:02,035
So we really start to say to people,
696
00:20:02,095 --> 00:20:02,875
look at, you know,
697
00:20:02,954 --> 00:20:05,237
now's the time to continue
698
00:20:05,257 --> 00:20:07,538
to be active planners about
699
00:20:07,598 --> 00:20:09,539
this next stage of your life,
700
00:20:11,201 --> 00:20:12,622
because it could be some of
701
00:20:12,642 --> 00:20:14,063
the best time of your life.
702
00:20:14,563 --> 00:20:16,023
And so we try to help people
703
00:20:16,104 --> 00:20:18,125
shift that narrative of
704
00:20:18,184 --> 00:20:19,767
that traditional passive
705
00:20:19,826 --> 00:20:21,907
narrative to be much more active.
706
00:20:23,507 --> 00:20:23,886
Then,
707
00:20:24,606 --> 00:20:25,567
in addition to the things we're
708
00:20:25,607 --> 00:20:26,028
talking about,
709
00:20:26,048 --> 00:20:27,127
are there other challenges
710
00:20:27,147 --> 00:20:29,769
that we haven't touched on that people,
711
00:20:30,250 --> 00:20:32,349
when they retire, not the money stuff,
712
00:20:32,410 --> 00:20:33,510
but when they retire and
713
00:20:33,530 --> 00:20:36,031
they're thinking about, is this it?
714
00:20:36,531 --> 00:20:37,632
Are there other challenges
715
00:20:37,652 --> 00:20:38,613
that people might have that
716
00:20:38,633 --> 00:20:39,492
you'd like to discuss?
717
00:20:40,030 --> 00:20:40,611
Yeah, I think,
718
00:20:40,810 --> 00:20:41,531
I think one of the
719
00:20:41,551 --> 00:20:42,892
challenges is just falling
720
00:20:42,932 --> 00:20:44,333
back to what I've always done.
721
00:20:44,413 --> 00:20:46,673
Like anybody who there's,
722
00:20:47,054 --> 00:20:48,474
I know a lot of people who like,
723
00:20:48,875 --> 00:20:50,615
I used to do this and now
724
00:20:50,635 --> 00:20:51,797
I'm going to do less of this.
725
00:20:51,856 --> 00:20:53,857
And I'm a contractor, you know,
726
00:20:53,877 --> 00:20:54,917
a consultant in some way
727
00:20:54,978 --> 00:20:55,999
and they don't like it,
728
00:20:56,118 --> 00:20:58,019
but they feel that's their identity.
729
00:20:58,039 --> 00:21:01,221
So I think, you know, it's that concept of,
730
00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:02,102
okay,
731
00:21:02,182 --> 00:21:03,981
shed your old skin and what can you
732
00:21:04,001 --> 00:21:04,962
do that's different.
733
00:21:05,002 --> 00:21:06,884
But I think falling back to,
734
00:21:10,566 --> 00:21:12,167
You know, I did this, you know,
735
00:21:12,228 --> 00:21:13,229
in my life and I'm just
736
00:21:13,249 --> 00:21:14,369
doing a little bit less of it.
737
00:21:15,451 --> 00:21:16,731
It doesn't get me excited,
738
00:21:16,991 --> 00:21:17,692
but I'm doing it.
739
00:21:17,792 --> 00:21:18,353
And, you know,
740
00:21:18,413 --> 00:21:20,194
it goes back to what do you do, right?
741
00:21:20,275 --> 00:21:21,635
It gives you that identity thing.
742
00:21:21,816 --> 00:21:23,718
Oh, well, I'm still like, and they're not,
743
00:21:23,857 --> 00:21:24,817
and you can tell that it
744
00:21:24,837 --> 00:21:26,319
doesn't give a purpose and happiness,
745
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,221
but it's the, I've always done this.
746
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,423
So I'm going to do this in a
747
00:21:30,462 --> 00:21:32,085
little bit less capacity.
748
00:21:32,265 --> 00:21:32,444
Yeah.
749
00:21:32,926 --> 00:21:34,569
You know, on the social side of this,
750
00:21:35,590 --> 00:21:36,854
I see so I'm in Florida,
751
00:21:36,933 --> 00:21:39,076
so I'm not in a retirement
752
00:21:39,116 --> 00:21:40,680
community of fifty five community,
753
00:21:40,700 --> 00:21:41,560
but I'm in Florida.
754
00:21:41,602 --> 00:21:42,563
So I see a lot of
755
00:21:43,444 --> 00:21:45,508
individuals who are retired and I see.
756
00:21:46,564 --> 00:21:49,125
that women are much more
757
00:21:49,445 --> 00:21:51,528
quickly to engage socially
758
00:21:51,647 --> 00:21:54,451
with other groups, activities, causes,
759
00:21:54,510 --> 00:21:55,191
charities,
760
00:21:55,951 --> 00:21:59,134
and men are much more resistant to that.
761
00:22:00,395 --> 00:22:02,217
I hate to focus on this gender stuff,
762
00:22:02,257 --> 00:22:02,758
but it's just,
763
00:22:02,917 --> 00:22:04,358
I see it so clearly down
764
00:22:04,419 --> 00:22:06,320
here and I see that,
765
00:22:06,340 --> 00:22:07,862
I don't know how you get
766
00:22:07,922 --> 00:22:09,042
men in the door for this
767
00:22:09,123 --> 00:22:10,364
type of conversation,
768
00:22:10,423 --> 00:22:11,184
but it sounds like you're
769
00:22:11,204 --> 00:22:12,486
having some success with it.
770
00:22:12,506 --> 00:22:13,586
Oh yeah.
771
00:22:14,849 --> 00:22:17,451
We have as many men as women
772
00:22:17,651 --> 00:22:19,731
in our workshops.
773
00:22:19,791 --> 00:22:22,252
And it's funny because when
774
00:22:22,272 --> 00:22:23,673
you asked Nan about challenges,
775
00:22:23,713 --> 00:22:24,554
the one that came to mind
776
00:22:24,574 --> 00:22:25,214
for me was this.
777
00:22:25,255 --> 00:22:26,095
It was community.
778
00:22:26,555 --> 00:22:28,016
Because you lose a big part
779
00:22:28,056 --> 00:22:29,236
of your community when you
780
00:22:29,256 --> 00:22:30,596
spend so much time day to
781
00:22:30,636 --> 00:22:31,857
day with certain people.
782
00:22:32,157 --> 00:22:33,998
People don't get that, right?
783
00:22:34,038 --> 00:22:35,019
Because you think about
784
00:22:35,358 --> 00:22:36,420
being social at work and
785
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,780
then after work and work-related things.
786
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:39,681
Is that what you're talking about?
787
00:22:40,096 --> 00:22:42,637
yes exactly yeah you know I
788
00:22:42,678 --> 00:22:44,318
mean to some degree I had
789
00:22:44,419 --> 00:22:46,220
my I worked at fidelity for
790
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:47,700
over twenty one years they
791
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:48,621
were there when I had my
792
00:22:48,681 --> 00:22:49,800
when I got married when I
793
00:22:49,820 --> 00:22:51,321
had my kids but like
794
00:22:51,342 --> 00:22:52,883
through all my life events
795
00:22:53,063 --> 00:22:54,323
and they be you know they
796
00:22:54,363 --> 00:22:56,824
were my work family and I
797
00:22:56,864 --> 00:22:58,865
think a significant number
798
00:22:58,884 --> 00:23:00,086
of people when they retire
799
00:23:00,165 --> 00:23:01,306
everyone says oh we'll keep
800
00:23:01,346 --> 00:23:02,307
in touch let's keep in
801
00:23:02,346 --> 00:23:04,548
touch but it just typically
802
00:23:04,587 --> 00:23:05,567
doesn't happen does it
803
00:23:07,424 --> 00:23:07,525
No.
804
00:23:07,585 --> 00:23:08,405
And I also say,
805
00:23:08,967 --> 00:23:10,468
we do have a program that
806
00:23:11,989 --> 00:23:14,692
organizations do for their pre-retirees.
807
00:23:15,231 --> 00:23:16,192
And that's where we're
808
00:23:16,212 --> 00:23:18,815
finding a lot of men signing up for that.
809
00:23:18,894 --> 00:23:20,016
Maybe they're not doing it
810
00:23:20,195 --> 00:23:21,877
afterwards as much because
811
00:23:21,897 --> 00:23:23,038
we have more women in our
812
00:23:23,118 --> 00:23:25,000
sort of individual and coaching programs.
813
00:23:25,441 --> 00:23:26,461
But in the workplace,
814
00:23:26,942 --> 00:23:28,763
there are a lot of men that
815
00:23:28,804 --> 00:23:30,305
we have sometimes...
816
00:23:31,365 --> 00:23:32,385
it's fifty-fifty,
817
00:23:32,426 --> 00:23:33,606
sometimes a little bit more men.
818
00:23:33,666 --> 00:23:35,327
But I think if you give them
819
00:23:35,367 --> 00:23:36,468
the opportunity while
820
00:23:36,508 --> 00:23:37,689
they're still working to
821
00:23:37,788 --> 00:23:39,088
raise their hand and get
822
00:23:39,128 --> 00:23:40,970
this conversation out in the open,
823
00:23:41,450 --> 00:23:42,790
it's much more beneficial.
824
00:23:42,891 --> 00:23:43,951
I think if they're waiting
825
00:23:44,070 --> 00:23:44,971
and they're in Florida and
826
00:23:44,991 --> 00:23:46,432
they think they're going to
827
00:23:46,792 --> 00:23:48,893
reconnect and get a new community,
828
00:23:49,653 --> 00:23:50,933
it doesn't happen as much.
829
00:23:50,973 --> 00:23:52,974
So we always say plan your
830
00:23:53,035 --> 00:23:54,695
retirement before you retire.
831
00:23:55,516 --> 00:23:58,176
Get moving on what do you
832
00:23:58,196 --> 00:23:59,156
want to do and what do you
833
00:23:59,176 --> 00:24:00,117
want to do that's different
834
00:24:00,178 --> 00:24:01,038
and what could be the
835
00:24:01,077 --> 00:24:04,459
community that you build around that.
836
00:24:05,140 --> 00:24:06,700
I can see that being so
837
00:24:06,740 --> 00:24:08,181
critical to having a
838
00:24:08,260 --> 00:24:09,980
successful real plan for
839
00:24:10,020 --> 00:24:11,301
what's after your work life.
840
00:24:11,842 --> 00:24:15,063
How soon before the retirement date,
841
00:24:15,103 --> 00:24:15,663
if you will,
842
00:24:15,962 --> 00:24:17,423
is this process starting for
843
00:24:17,483 --> 00:24:18,825
someone in one of the
844
00:24:18,845 --> 00:24:20,105
corporations that you work with?
845
00:24:21,690 --> 00:24:23,792
It's usually one to three years out.
846
00:24:25,414 --> 00:24:27,317
One year is about right.
847
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:29,961
And a lot of times
848
00:24:30,020 --> 00:24:34,047
corporations are thinking about like, hey,
849
00:24:34,067 --> 00:24:35,288
could this person contract
850
00:24:35,307 --> 00:24:36,108
or they could do different
851
00:24:36,128 --> 00:24:37,611
things and how do I use
852
00:24:37,631 --> 00:24:39,193
this person's talent to help?
853
00:24:39,794 --> 00:24:42,055
you know, mentor the next generation.
854
00:24:42,095 --> 00:24:43,836
So organizations have some
855
00:24:43,895 --> 00:24:45,237
benefits by doing it.
856
00:24:45,376 --> 00:24:47,157
But I think one to three
857
00:24:47,178 --> 00:24:49,259
years out is really the right time.
858
00:24:49,298 --> 00:24:50,539
And we always say to people,
859
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,181
go try things out before you even retire.
860
00:24:53,340 --> 00:24:54,842
Maybe you're thinking about volunteering.
861
00:24:55,201 --> 00:24:57,103
Well, go do it now and see what it's like.
862
00:24:57,202 --> 00:24:58,144
Is that what you want to do?
863
00:24:58,364 --> 00:24:59,944
Or, you know, whatever it might be.
864
00:25:01,780 --> 00:25:03,201
russ uh we've been doing all
865
00:25:03,221 --> 00:25:04,522
the talking here I know
866
00:25:04,542 --> 00:25:05,383
you're on the control panel
867
00:25:05,403 --> 00:25:06,763
did you it looks like you
868
00:25:06,784 --> 00:25:08,144
have something to say I do
869
00:25:08,224 --> 00:25:09,424
I I have a couple thoughts
870
00:25:09,486 --> 00:25:10,945
I mean I find this whole uh
871
00:25:10,965 --> 00:25:12,227
conversation so fascinating
872
00:25:12,547 --> 00:25:13,708
um and definitely you know
873
00:25:13,728 --> 00:25:15,288
my mom is uh semi-retired
874
00:25:15,348 --> 00:25:17,250
and she's uh always thought
875
00:25:17,289 --> 00:25:18,490
of retirement as a bit of a
876
00:25:18,550 --> 00:25:20,051
dirty word I think uh just
877
00:25:20,092 --> 00:25:21,571
from from her upbringing or
878
00:25:21,613 --> 00:25:23,153
whatever it was uh she
879
00:25:23,192 --> 00:25:23,973
didn't want to you know
880
00:25:24,013 --> 00:25:24,673
approach the word
881
00:25:24,713 --> 00:25:26,634
retirement and um she she
882
00:25:26,855 --> 00:25:27,715
kind of thinks of it as
883
00:25:27,736 --> 00:25:29,156
like a new a new period
884
00:25:29,196 --> 00:25:29,717
rather than at the
885
00:25:29,737 --> 00:25:30,698
beginning of the end or
886
00:25:31,178 --> 00:25:31,979
Something that, you know,
887
00:25:31,999 --> 00:25:33,380
some people might consider retirement.
888
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:36,141
But yeah,
889
00:25:36,221 --> 00:25:37,521
I guess I just wanted to find out
890
00:25:37,622 --> 00:25:39,103
what the difference was
891
00:25:39,523 --> 00:25:40,144
when you're working with
892
00:25:40,163 --> 00:25:41,105
those pre-retirees,
893
00:25:41,144 --> 00:25:42,305
maybe that are currently in
894
00:25:42,325 --> 00:25:43,026
the workforce.
895
00:25:43,506 --> 00:25:45,027
And maybe someone who's been
896
00:25:45,047 --> 00:25:46,468
retired for a couple of years or even,
897
00:25:46,768 --> 00:25:46,969
you know,
898
00:25:47,009 --> 00:25:48,348
five years and then realizes
899
00:25:48,869 --> 00:25:49,710
they don't really know what
900
00:25:49,730 --> 00:25:50,671
their passions are anymore.
901
00:25:50,711 --> 00:25:51,451
Or they've, you know,
902
00:25:51,511 --> 00:25:52,751
they've done the golfing,
903
00:25:52,771 --> 00:25:53,673
they've done the traveling,
904
00:25:53,712 --> 00:25:56,015
they visited the grandkids and decide,
905
00:25:56,035 --> 00:25:57,214
you know,
906
00:25:57,234 --> 00:25:58,576
what else now that I have twenty
907
00:25:58,615 --> 00:25:59,616
five years left of
908
00:25:59,777 --> 00:26:00,897
retirement ahead of me.
909
00:26:03,398 --> 00:26:05,140
I find them to be even more
910
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,281
motivated because they're searching,
911
00:26:08,561 --> 00:26:09,923
right, in those years.
912
00:26:10,002 --> 00:26:11,683
They recognize the problem, right?
913
00:26:11,864 --> 00:26:12,163
Yeah.
914
00:26:12,263 --> 00:26:15,885
And does the approach change
915
00:26:15,926 --> 00:26:16,967
from the coaching
916
00:26:17,007 --> 00:26:17,988
standpoint when you're
917
00:26:18,008 --> 00:26:19,449
talking to pre-retirees or
918
00:26:19,509 --> 00:26:20,548
people who are in that
919
00:26:20,989 --> 00:26:22,210
later stage of retirement?
920
00:26:22,871 --> 00:26:24,351
No, we take them through our,
921
00:26:24,592 --> 00:26:25,571
we call it our future in
922
00:26:25,612 --> 00:26:26,833
four-step process.
923
00:26:28,561 --> 00:26:30,644
And then from there,
924
00:26:31,606 --> 00:26:33,450
we have them create their
925
00:26:33,490 --> 00:26:35,192
personalized vision life plan.
926
00:26:36,648 --> 00:26:38,250
And then the thing that we
927
00:26:38,390 --> 00:26:39,829
really feel passionate
928
00:26:39,869 --> 00:26:42,310
about is this shouldn't be one and done,
929
00:26:42,490 --> 00:26:42,770
right?
930
00:26:43,171 --> 00:26:44,871
This could be twenty five, thirty years.
931
00:26:45,311 --> 00:26:47,791
So we give people lifetime
932
00:26:47,852 --> 00:26:49,813
access to the tools and the platform.
933
00:26:50,272 --> 00:26:51,272
Even the people who go to
934
00:26:51,333 --> 00:26:53,574
the virtual workshop,
935
00:26:53,693 --> 00:26:56,335
they have all of those tools that we use.
936
00:26:56,634 --> 00:26:59,434
We teach live, but we also have videos.
937
00:26:59,935 --> 00:27:01,276
It's a very interactive
938
00:27:02,037 --> 00:27:03,837
um learning platform digital
939
00:27:03,857 --> 00:27:04,857
learning platform so
940
00:27:04,897 --> 00:27:06,898
there's videos there's hbr
941
00:27:06,999 --> 00:27:08,480
articles there's ted talks
942
00:27:08,660 --> 00:27:10,800
there's our own teaching
943
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:12,301
videos that we've produced
944
00:27:12,402 --> 00:27:14,522
of us so and there's all
945
00:27:14,583 --> 00:27:15,442
types of tools and
946
00:27:15,482 --> 00:27:16,884
templates to help people
947
00:27:17,203 --> 00:27:19,265
really um dig in if you
948
00:27:19,305 --> 00:27:20,746
will and have a concrete
949
00:27:20,786 --> 00:27:22,926
plan and you know we
950
00:27:22,967 --> 00:27:24,126
encourage people to revisit
951
00:27:24,166 --> 00:27:25,708
that at the strategic
952
00:27:25,748 --> 00:27:26,989
points in their time right
953
00:27:28,446 --> 00:27:29,406
And you said you guys work
954
00:27:29,448 --> 00:27:31,048
with businesses as well.
955
00:27:31,067 --> 00:27:32,489
I was wondering,
956
00:27:33,809 --> 00:27:35,631
is it all sizes of businesses,
957
00:27:35,671 --> 00:27:37,570
small businesses, big corporations?
958
00:27:37,731 --> 00:27:39,511
Where do you see, you know,
959
00:27:39,752 --> 00:27:40,992
businesses signing up for this?
960
00:27:41,113 --> 00:27:41,673
And also?
961
00:27:42,534 --> 00:27:46,915
Oh, yeah, we'll start start with that.
962
00:27:46,976 --> 00:27:50,018
So go ahead.
963
00:27:50,038 --> 00:27:50,597
Go ahead, man.
964
00:27:50,637 --> 00:27:50,877
Sorry.
965
00:27:51,431 --> 00:27:51,570
Well,
966
00:27:51,611 --> 00:27:53,311
it tends to be people who have a
967
00:27:53,372 --> 00:27:54,653
demographic within their
968
00:27:54,712 --> 00:27:56,314
organization that is older.
969
00:27:56,453 --> 00:27:57,515
So, you know,
970
00:27:57,535 --> 00:27:59,155
if you think about manufacturing,
971
00:27:59,175 --> 00:28:01,057
you think about financial services,
972
00:28:01,116 --> 00:28:02,597
health care, academia,
973
00:28:04,057 --> 00:28:06,279
those organizations are ripe for this.
974
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:08,221
And so really a lot of it is
975
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,482
the makeup of their organization.
976
00:28:11,982 --> 00:28:12,923
workforce,
977
00:28:13,743 --> 00:28:15,424
and also we're finding that if
978
00:28:15,464 --> 00:28:17,586
we have a HR leader that is
979
00:28:17,746 --> 00:28:19,866
actually thinking about
980
00:28:19,926 --> 00:28:21,186
retirement themselves,
981
00:28:21,688 --> 00:28:23,488
they have a realization
982
00:28:23,588 --> 00:28:26,670
that this is real for me,
983
00:28:26,750 --> 00:28:28,411
so it must be real for other people.
984
00:28:29,431 --> 00:28:31,711
So it's size, you know,
985
00:28:32,271 --> 00:28:33,313
most of what we're doing is
986
00:28:33,393 --> 00:28:34,413
midsize companies,
987
00:28:34,472 --> 00:28:35,554
but I think it's people who
988
00:28:35,614 --> 00:28:37,535
really have the demographic
989
00:28:37,734 --> 00:28:39,654
of the people and they're
990
00:28:39,694 --> 00:28:42,376
worried about the future because they see,
991
00:28:42,537 --> 00:28:44,136
you know, by twenty thirty,
992
00:28:44,477 --> 00:28:45,238
twenty million,
993
00:28:45,258 --> 00:28:46,198
twenty eight million people
994
00:28:46,238 --> 00:28:47,038
are going to be over the
995
00:28:47,117 --> 00:28:48,179
age of sixty five.
996
00:28:48,219 --> 00:28:49,578
And and that's seventy
997
00:28:49,618 --> 00:28:51,460
percent of the United States workforce.
998
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:52,780
What am I going to do?
999
00:28:52,901 --> 00:28:53,980
So there's some real
1000
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:55,541
business challenges that
1001
00:28:55,582 --> 00:28:58,042
sort of drive drive companies to do this.
1002
00:29:00,134 --> 00:29:00,713
Well,
1003
00:29:01,255 --> 00:29:02,576
you guys are right on target with
1004
00:29:02,615 --> 00:29:04,416
what I see from my
1005
00:29:04,517 --> 00:29:06,338
neighbors and friends a
1006
00:29:06,358 --> 00:29:07,378
little bit older than me
1007
00:29:07,419 --> 00:29:09,101
that some of them are
1008
00:29:09,121 --> 00:29:10,761
getting it right on target.
1009
00:29:10,981 --> 00:29:11,863
They're living their best
1010
00:29:11,903 --> 00:29:13,523
life in their retirement years.
1011
00:29:14,184 --> 00:29:15,806
But sadly, some of them are not.
1012
00:29:15,905 --> 00:29:17,386
And you can see that there's
1013
00:29:17,406 --> 00:29:18,607
something missing in their life.
1014
00:29:19,327 --> 00:29:20,990
If an individual is listening,
1015
00:29:21,769 --> 00:29:22,310
they don't have the
1016
00:29:22,351 --> 00:29:23,510
advantage of having a
1017
00:29:23,912 --> 00:29:25,673
corporate structure that is
1018
00:29:25,732 --> 00:29:27,554
going to sponsor this for them.
1019
00:29:27,634 --> 00:29:29,036
If an individual is listening,
1020
00:29:29,950 --> 00:29:32,070
and either is preparing to
1021
00:29:32,111 --> 00:29:34,652
retire or is retired and saying,
1022
00:29:35,113 --> 00:29:36,212
I got to do better than this.
1023
00:29:36,833 --> 00:29:40,674
How do they reach you?
1024
00:29:40,694 --> 00:29:42,915
So they can go out to our website,
1025
00:29:42,955 --> 00:29:44,596
thefutureofyou.com,
1026
00:29:45,396 --> 00:29:47,278
and they can gain access to,
1027
00:29:47,877 --> 00:29:49,118
there's a whole overview of
1028
00:29:49,199 --> 00:29:51,420
our programs that they could sign up for,
1029
00:29:51,460 --> 00:29:52,421
for individuals.
1030
00:29:52,780 --> 00:29:54,020
They can also schedule a
1031
00:29:54,060 --> 00:29:55,422
discovery call with one of
1032
00:29:55,521 --> 00:29:57,403
us if they would like to do that as well.
1033
00:29:58,419 --> 00:30:00,800
And what does that call look like, Lisa?
1034
00:30:00,820 --> 00:30:03,203
Just like a first step?
1035
00:30:04,224 --> 00:30:05,746
Yes, it's a little gathering.
1036
00:30:05,766 --> 00:30:07,188
Yeah, exactly.
1037
00:30:07,288 --> 00:30:08,489
So it's a little bit about
1038
00:30:08,689 --> 00:30:10,171
us learning about them and
1039
00:30:10,451 --> 00:30:11,771
them learning about us and
1040
00:30:11,811 --> 00:30:13,314
what we offer and we answer
1041
00:30:13,374 --> 00:30:14,634
any questions they have.
1042
00:30:14,674 --> 00:30:16,336
And we share with them the
1043
00:30:16,416 --> 00:30:18,179
experience of going through
1044
00:30:18,219 --> 00:30:19,759
that digital platform and
1045
00:30:20,580 --> 00:30:22,363
helping them craft their plan.
1046
00:30:23,616 --> 00:30:23,856
Great.
1047
00:30:24,457 --> 00:30:25,317
Thank you for your time.
1048
00:30:25,356 --> 00:30:27,758
It's very right on target to
1049
00:30:27,778 --> 00:30:29,097
the things that I see in
1050
00:30:29,178 --> 00:30:30,338
our financial planning
1051
00:30:31,298 --> 00:30:32,338
preparation with people.
1052
00:30:32,378 --> 00:30:34,118
It's not just about the financial number.
1053
00:30:34,159 --> 00:30:36,839
That's only step one in this journey.
1054
00:30:36,859 --> 00:30:38,299
You can have prepared your whole life,
1055
00:30:38,319 --> 00:30:39,881
which many people do,
1056
00:30:39,921 --> 00:30:41,060
to meet their cash flow
1057
00:30:41,121 --> 00:30:44,241
needs and their legacy desires.
1058
00:30:46,071 --> 00:30:48,614
Today, retiring at sixty, sixty five,
1059
00:30:48,634 --> 00:30:49,855
you could very well have
1060
00:30:50,655 --> 00:30:52,676
thirty years left to find
1061
00:30:52,696 --> 00:30:53,617
your purpose and have a
1062
00:30:53,678 --> 00:30:55,598
wonderful retirement for
1063
00:30:55,638 --> 00:30:56,660
all those years that you
1064
00:30:57,019 --> 00:30:59,041
built your effort and built
1065
00:30:59,061 --> 00:31:00,222
your ability to retire.
1066
00:31:00,282 --> 00:31:01,844
So take advantage of this
1067
00:31:01,903 --> 00:31:03,665
program or other programs like it.
1068
00:31:03,705 --> 00:31:04,926
Thank you for joining us today.
1069
00:31:04,946 --> 00:31:07,588
Well, thank you for having us.
1070
00:31:07,628 --> 00:31:08,710
And thank you for listening
1071
00:31:08,730 --> 00:31:09,809
to another episode of
1072
00:31:09,849 --> 00:31:11,471
Something More with Chris Boyd.
1073
00:31:12,011 --> 00:31:12,752
Until next time,
1074
00:31:12,952 --> 00:31:14,354
keep striving for something more.
1075
00:31:16,431 --> 00:31:17,531
Thank you for listening to
1076
00:31:17,592 --> 00:31:19,093
Something More with Chris Boyd.
1077
00:31:19,452 --> 00:31:20,253
Call us for help,
1078
00:31:20,574 --> 00:31:21,654
whether it's for financial
1079
00:31:21,734 --> 00:31:23,415
planning or portfolio management,
1080
00:31:23,797 --> 00:31:24,856
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1081
00:31:25,218 --> 00:31:26,459
or those quality of life
1082
00:31:26,499 --> 00:31:27,579
issues that make the money
1083
00:31:27,619 --> 00:31:28,720
matters matter.
1084
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:30,040
Whatever's on your mind,
1085
00:31:30,161 --> 00:31:30,902
visit us at
1086
00:31:30,922 --> 00:31:32,884
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1087
00:31:33,384 --> 00:31:35,746
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00:31:36,105 --> 00:31:39,127
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1089
00:31:39,449 --> 00:31:40,709
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1090
00:31:40,750 --> 00:31:44,913
to amr-info at wealthenhancement.com.
1091
00:31:45,413 --> 00:31:45,952
you're listening to
1092
00:31:45,992 --> 00:31:46,814
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1093
00:31:46,894 --> 00:31:47,954
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1094
00:31:47,994 --> 00:31:49,076
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1095
00:31:49,115 --> 00:31:49,836
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1096
00:31:49,855 --> 00:31:50,817
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1097
00:31:50,836 --> 00:31:51,798
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1098
00:31:51,897 --> 00:31:53,159
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1099
00:31:53,179 --> 00:31:54,440
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1100
00:31:54,460 --> 00:31:55,500
on a complete analysis of
1101
00:31:55,621 --> 00:31:56,882
all facts and circumstances
1102
00:31:57,001 --> 00:31:57,862
the information given on
1103
00:31:57,882 --> 00:31:58,863
this program is general
1104
00:31:58,883 --> 00:31:59,743
financial comments and
1105
00:31:59,784 --> 00:32:00,865
cannot be relied upon as
1106
00:32:00,884 --> 00:32:01,945
pertaining to your specific
1107
00:32:01,986 --> 00:32:02,806
situation wealth
1108
00:32:02,826 --> 00:32:03,646
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1109
00:32:03,666 --> 00:32:04,586
guarantee that using the
1110
00:32:04,627 --> 00:32:05,567
information from this show
1111
00:32:05,607 --> 00:32:06,568
will generate profits or
1112
00:32:06,628 --> 00:32:07,769
ensure freedom from loss
1113
00:32:07,910 --> 00:32:08,750
listeners should consult
1114
00:32:08,770 --> 00:32:09,471
their own financial
1115
00:32:09,490 --> 00:32:10,491
advisors or conduct their
1116
00:32:10,551 --> 00:32:11,673
own due diligence before
1117
00:32:11,692 --> 00:32:13,094
making any financial decisions
1118
00:32:16,315 --> 00:32:16,663
So, right.